actions and their effects

you want to be mindful how your actions can affect others and yourself. no matter what people do to you, they may do it because it is their character to do so, and it may be nothing personal they have towards you. regardless if it is, you want to stay calm and act with dignity. make it a chance to help others get out of that state, because you have been there. you know how negative actions affect you, even if it’s an action towards someone else. that is because you carry the emotions and anger eats the mind. it makes you so blind to the difference between the good and the bad, that you too will drown in the sadness that comes after. because you hurt someone, regardless if they started the pain first. because you felt those emotions. and if you ever want to live on peacefully, you have to make peace, with others and within yourself.